Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Remembering Rita


Rita the second wife, because she was Catholic, in a Hindu world,
visited Portland one summer to be near her two sisters ,
all Indian born and raised.

Dark skin, dark eyes, soft to the hand everywhere, with beautiful lips ,
unique to her culture, uttered perfect English.

We spent one summer, walking and talking art,
she showing me newspaper photos and articles throughout the world,
describing her Rocco, were she employed a whole village,
baking hand-formed pottery under the soil.

I said Rita, You're in America,we have turntables and electricity.
She answered me that she sold her historic forms in
Monterey California
Las Vegas, Nevada and
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania because she heard,
it was the city of brotherly love.

On our last day together at Mt. Hood she held up the ride on a slide,
because she didn’t want to go too fast.

She then told me on the drive home,
YOU AMERICANS HAVE SO MUCH ,
BUT HAVE CREATED NOTHING, YOU
HAVE JUST TAKEN FROM THE REST OF THE WORLD.

I was shocked into silence, and later asked her sister why.
She answered, it's not you Joe, she always leaves angry,
it never changes.

Commercial Work


One of the first projects my 18-year-old son worked on with me was a conference table, for a commercial real estate sales office in downtown Portland. This was done when cutting and finishing was done with handheld skill saws and grinders. Shaping and detailing an unforgiving and reluctant stone like granite was a real challenge back then. It was a slow and difficult process to turn two raw slabs of granite into a matched three-dimensional stone table.

We were both quite proud of our hard work when we delivered it to the tenth floor of the commercial real state office and installed it on a custom wooden base ready for us. It all came together very well we thought.

Before we left the office, three architects walked in, one stating, “What a handsome piece of stone,” congratulating the other on his stone selection.

Then a group of young commercial salesmen came in, not noticing us, “HOW MANY APES DID IT TAKE TO CARRY THAT UP HERE?” and laughed.

This was my son's introduction to commercial stone fabrication. It's no wonder we all prefer to work for private home owners who respect and appreciate good craftsmanship.

Custom Fabrication


After being turned down by two neighborhood machine shops, I searched the large S.E. District for a metal fab shop.

I found two of the three steel fabrication shops recently closed their business. The third was a large building with four lumbering overhead bridge cranes. There is a sadness about such a cavernous tomb, that must have housed an industrial powerhouse in a different world. I counted six bodies in this dimly lit non-heated block-long building .

The girls at the office welcomed me with smiles and interest as I described my need for four U-shaped metal forms, three inches long, made from ¼ stock.

After much excitement and duplication of words they summoned the plant manager, whom I assumed was the owner, who as he walked in smiled at me, looked at my drawing, and said:

“Yes, we can do this for you. It should cost 40 dollars, however, by the time we process the order, track its process in the shop, receive and answer your phone calls discussing its progress, and schedule you for pick up, it will cost me 240 dollars. Incidentally we can make 20 of these for the same price.”

“Pay 240 dollars now, and we will call you when they are ready,” all virtually said in a minute or less, and he walked back into the shop.

I said thank you and pulled out my Visa card and the girls started to process the order.

I now have 16 extra pieces of metal taking up room in my shop which I have no use for.


Teen Years


I remember the awkward years when as a parent, you try so hard, because you are so proud of your child, having reached sufficient size to appear like a adult.

However there response to your interest in there lives is cold and passive.

Development experts say this is normal and even a required part of breaking away to become their own person.

But it seems to me to be a cruel and ugly response to years of nurturing.
However
If you are lucky and live long enough it all comes back with much more then you gave.


[sitting in Starbucks and watching a mother dote over her disinterested teen ]

By Chance


By chance,
only a telephone call away from canceling the trip,
Elizabeth called, from the village,
requesting me to come, despite my fear of intruding.

By chance
we meet in a most unlikely place.
Me a pale Yankee, with no language skills,
in unfamiliar surroundings.
You a beautiful Latina, with social graces,
at home in the largest city in Mexico.

Stopped your busy world to show me
another way of life.

Mexico, three cultures, layered and combined

Producing
happy people, where living and enjoying life every day is paramount

By chance
meeting a juke box queen, living deep in Mexico City,
has changed my life in a direction that pulls me south,
with greater understanding.

A Drive to the Country


Setting out, myself at the wheel, unschooled and illiterate of the sign posts, or Mexico City driving patterns.
Elizabeth and Bob, the man who understands computers, sitting in the rear.
Terry, sitting in a semi-reclined position, the primary navigator.
Elizabeth, Terry’s life-long friend, provided second opinions and hand signals from the rear seat.

Advice came from all directions, including Bob, but primarily from Terry and Elizabeth, with their Mexican habit for late and excited hand, foot, and vocal expressions, as we navigated the city westward toward Morelia, the second city established by Spain, 500 years earlier. The route was somewhat uncertain due to road repairs and confusing signage.

As we traveled the Mexican landscape laterally, with dramatic changes in altitude, there was no discussion or observations concerning vegetation, topography, culture, or local history included in the ride.
Stopping for fuel, I stayed with the Honda, while the passengers streamed to the refreshment stand.

Four and one half hours later, arriving at the lakeside village home, my request for tequila was questioned, however I prevailed drinking until I was calmed to my surroundings and joined my fellow travelers in the kitchen, for strawberries.

Driving back to the city the next day with Terry, my eyes blurred from the night traffic dropping into the Valley of Mexico, incoming freeways loaded with weekend traffic.
By accident we landed on a surface street whose name I could not properly pronounce in Spanish, but whose English meaning I fully understand. Insurgenta splits Mexico City, East and West. I was chided for my pronunciation and challenged regarding its meaning, however, it led me to south Mexico City, Tapan, home of my navigator .

As I unloaded the car, Terry told me she never drove back to the city at night, it was to hard, and went on to explain to me that it seemed shellfish that I did all the driving this weekend.

Needless to say, I said to myself that I would never go near the wheel again, lest I should make her spill the bucket of whole milk, she held with her feet to make special candy with, or spill the strawberry basket we purchased in the fields along the way, or scuff the trunk with some rocks I may have stopped for, alongside the road.

The next day I was told that Bob, the man who called me kind of handy to have around, was made sick by the chicken soup I had prepared for breakfast the morning we traveled west to the lake village. I thought it might have been to many of those unwashed strawberries he was eating in the back seat, I don’t know.

Anyway, I started packing my suitcase to head north, to where my children were waiting to pick me up at the airport.